tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11325034316659761142024-02-19T01:54:06.142-05:00Shadows Bring the StarlightThe musings, inspirations, and theories of a former big city girl trying to find her place in this world.HollyGhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15508759472537622246noreply@blogger.comBlogger296125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1132503431665976114.post-8207698917250406942016-02-18T01:32:00.000-05:002016-02-18T01:32:06.703-05:00"Of restlessness and vague desire"The title of this post, from Edgar Lee Masters' poem "George Gray," is the phrase that keeps cycling through my brain. I can't describe the ominous feelings that keep haunting me. I don't know why I have been so on edge, why I often feel like crying in the middle of the day or get so angry over something small that smoke might as well be streaming from my ears. I keep trying to explain, and yet all I settle upon is a line from a poem, a supposed epitaph in the town of Spoon River to commemorate a life not really lived: "restlessness and vague desire-- it is a boat longing for the sea and yet afraid."<br />
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Restlessness and vague desire-- what does that mean? I know what it looks like, but what does it <i>mean</i> for me, for the day-to-day? Sometimes I catch myself twisting my face into contortions, grimaces, and I don't realize how awful I was feeling until that moment, until a co-worker catches my eye and worriedly asks if I am "okay." And when I respond with "No" and am regarded with a quizzical glance, I don't know how to complete the thought and provide a reason. I am a fragment, or a misplaced modifier-- something grammatically incorrect and incoherent.<br />
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I was reading an article today, <a href="http://thoughtcatalog.com/brianna-wiest/2016/02/40-words-for-emotions-youve-felt-but-couldnt-explain/">"40 Words for Emotions You've Felt But Couldn't Explain,"</a> and while I still don't have a non-vague vocabulary to capture the scatterplot of twitches in my brain and heart, there were at least a few words and definitions that resonated.<br />
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<span style="background-color: white; font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif; line-height: 1.2;">Monachopsis (</span><em style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">n)--</em><span style="background-color: white; font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"> the subtle but persistent feeling of being out of place, as maladapted to your surroundings as a seal on a beach—lumbering, clumsy, easily distracted, huddled in the company of other misfits, unable to recognize the ambient roar of your intended habitat, in which you’d be </span>fluidly<span style="background-color: white; font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">, brilliantly, effortlessly at home.</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif; line-height: 1.2;">Fitzcarraldo (</span><em style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">n)--</em><span style="background-color: white; font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"> an image that somehow becomes lodged deep in your brain—maybe washed there by a dream, or smuggled inside a book, or planted during a casual conversation—which then grows into a wild and impractical vision that keeps scrambling back and forth in your head like a dog stuck in a car that’s about to arrive home, just itching for a chance to leap headlong into reality.</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif; line-height: 1.2;">Rigor Samsa (</span><em style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">n)--</em><span style="background-color: white; font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">. a kind of psychological exoskeleton that can protect you from pain and contain your anxieties, but always ends up cracking under pressure or hollowed out by time—and will keep growing back again and again, until you develop a more sophisticated emotional structure, held up by a strong and flexible spine, built less like a fortress than a cluster of </span>treehouses<span style="background-color: white; font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">.</span><br />
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I really need to invent a word that combines all of these, that provides a method or framework to articulate the nervous buzz that I cannot explain to other people. The last two, in particular, could offer some explanations if combined. I think that I have cultivated an exoskeleton of sorts that instead of fortresses or treehouses is formed more out of something like clouds or veils of mist, something insubstantial because it doesn't exist. A "wild and impractical vision," maybe "smuggled inside a book [or a song or a face]," that I have latched onto as a way to cope, and in the process I've partially convinced myself that it is actually real. I doubt any of this makes sense, and I think that I need an entirely separate post to try to work through the castles my brain has built to keep me safe(r). I speak vaguely because I feel vaguely. </div>
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Have you ever invented a fantasy and convinced yourself that it was true because that was what you needed? Like you go to bed with the dream of a reassuring presence and partially expect him to materialize in the night, like a benevolent cat-burglar? My mind has invented stories and people, a particular presence that is, with the face of a beautiful man, in the last week because I feel like I need that narrative in order to exist peacefully; I need someone who is good and kind and earnest and <i>grounded</i>, who reminds me of the me I've lost, and because he cannot be real right now I will invent a lie and convince myself that it is true. I will delude myself because I need that delusion in order to avoid snapping and spiraling. I will settle these delusions onto a particular person and his image, one who is real enough but not in <i>my</i> life, and I will think of him as the almost-graspable solution to all of my foibles and fears. He will be the target, the locus, the solution that exists but does not exist at the same time. And he will hold me and kiss my clasped hands and speak to me in the angel-voice of a man who only lives to let me grasp hold of healing and living and being known. He will regard me with kind eyes and implicit understanding. And then he will disappear into the ether because he's not actually here and he therefore cannot offer me redemption, and then I will feel lonely and insufficient and dream him into being again to form a nest with his arms and let me rest, supported from below. And so the cycle continues: bereft, deluded, aware, bereft, deluded, aware.</div>
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None of this makes sense. I am aware of that as well. And as I try to put it into words, the shame over substituting a fantasy for reality-- seventh-grade girl style-- is all-encompassing. And yet I continue to ask: Why is this seemingly what I need right now? Why is it, if I close my eyes tightly enough, I can feel a strong sinewy hand grasping mine and holding me steady, down to earth, as our pulses throb in syncopation? </div>
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HollyGhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15508759472537622246noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1132503431665976114.post-79148029115350077672016-02-16T02:22:00.002-05:002016-02-16T22:29:54.483-05:00Clean?I'm having a minor crisis because I got my carpet cleaned today.<br />
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I needed that gap here, that white space, to send myself the message about how ridiculous that sounds. But as I touch my toes to the still-wet carpet, I cannot help but think that this was what I expected all along. I knew that I would get my carpet cleaned. And I knew that I would feel empty and lost because of it.<br />
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Here is the thing about grief that seems obvious but that people don't tell you: It lurks in corners, beneath couches, and under rugs. It wafts upwards like skeins of smoke, from candles that have sat unlit for months. It involves one step forward, then three steps back, then another four steps back because you feel guilty about the initial step forward. And also, because grief is so personal, being around other people often makes you feel preemptively misunderstood, even before you have tried. It isn't rational, and because of that, it is hard to share. It is easier to hibernate, memorize the knots in the floorboards and scratches on the door, the afterimages that linger under chairs and tables, and yes, the spots on the carpet that were so omnipresent that I could play connect-the-dots with them.<br />
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These were not happy stains. These were not like a ring of red wine from a party. These stains were marks of illness, fear, pain, and loneliness. These stains told the story of our year of sickness, stains that became so much a part of our fabric that it was difficult to see where they ended and the rest of the carpet began. It was difficult to tell whether a mark was, in fact, a shadow or a more ominous penumbra: vomited bile, for instance. These stains represented so much suffering, from me and from little Pip; so why am I paralyzed now that they're gone?<br />
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This new, clean, ever-damp carpet seems to suggest that a clean slate is possible, and I resent that. I don't want to wipe Pip away, like he never existed. He saved me in so many ways. Literally, we saved each other, escaping from rubble and fire that resulted in a carpet far more stained than this one. We survived that. I don't want to have to face a world where nobody else can see the ghosts that still haunt me, the memories that rise out of this room despite its pristine ivory covering the floor. That mismatch between what is observable and all of the memories I harbor is excruciating.<br />
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In an effort to force myself to be social, I just got together with a friend of a friend of a friend and her girlfriends, and while they were lovely and a nice distraction, I still felt like they had a cleanliness that I lack. They were young and innocent, while I felt prematurely old. They walked in wearing their yoga pants and ponytails, faces scrubbed clean and earnest, and I, in my black dress that could probably use a washing, felt this great divide between us that went beyond age or experience, although that was a factor as well. (I probably have about seven years on these girls, at least.) And I was reminded why right now I don't want to connect with anyone who didn't know Pip. I don't want to have to explain why the clean carpet is ill-fitting, or what was lost when my carpet was scrubbed within an inch of its life. I want even less to have to explain the strange identification I felt with the carpet that looked like a relic from a crime scene. Yet so it goes, and so it is.<br />
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The ground is still wet, and because of that, I have furniture and knick-knacks piled Jenga-style in the other rooms of my tiny apartment. I have a tower of record albums in my bedroom and a booby-trap of floor lamps in my kitchen. Who knows how long it will be until something falls, something cracks, or I get caught in the tangle. Who knows?HollyGhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15508759472537622246noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1132503431665976114.post-26545662018966547802016-01-22T01:34:00.001-05:002016-01-22T01:34:18.362-05:00Comfort in poetryA little Pablo Neruda has me sighing, "<i>This. This. This.</i>" His poem "You Will Remember" raises so many questions: Who is the "you?" Under what circumstances must that person remember? Are these instructions in memory, or reassurances? Some people might see this as being a poem about the afterlife; others might think that it is a very literal recollection of a beautiful, meaningful place. To me, though, it is all about the power of memory after a loss. "[N]othing is waiting" there because the individual, or at least the individual's body, is gone; however, in that place of emptiness, in the images that resurrect themselves from love and longing, we do find "everything waiting there." We find a way to hold on. We find our footholds, and we return to each other.<br />
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<b>You Will Remember</b><br />
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You will remember that leaping stream<br />
where sweet aromas rose and trembled,<br />
and sometimes a bird, wearing water<br />
and slowness, its winter feathers.<br />
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You will remember those gifts from the earth:<br />
indelible scents, gold clay,<br />
weeds in the thicket and crazy roots,<br />
magical thorns like swords.<br />
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You'll remember the bouquet you picked,<br />
shadows and silent water,<br />
bouquet like a foam-covered stone.<br />
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That time was like never, and like always.<br />
So we go there, where nothing is waiting;<br />
we find everything waiting there.<br />
<br />HollyGhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15508759472537622246noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1132503431665976114.post-5306546349692611672016-01-21T00:29:00.001-05:002016-01-21T00:29:53.172-05:00"so I lie (eye to eye)"There's something about this blog that seems to lead me to make hollow promises. I've promised to return twice now, and I've lied twice now. I wish that I could be more of a truth-teller, but that concept eludes me, and yet here I am with arms outstretched.<br />
Again, the reasons for my absence, my falsehoods, are the same. The time and effort it takes to string words together, like beads on a necklace, when my words are more like worry-stones. The need to preserve anonymity. The rising-phoenix quality of sadness when I rehash it in words. And most of all, the guilt of airing the tornado of thoughts inside my head when some people would doubt that I have sorrows at all, OR insist that I live by compare and contrast and realize how good I have it, OR believe that I'm perpetuating my own struggle by not forcing myself to "snap out of it." Or all of the above. Some part of me believes that my thoughts are not worth airing because they will be accompanied by judgment.<br />
The reason why I return to this blog sounds so stupid when I write it: My dog died.<br />
And yet.<br />
My dog died, and it's as if a piece of me is missing. It's like I've lost my best self, because the best part of me was the part that cared for and loved him. It's like I've lost the joy-filter on my life, for he was the one who so often taught me how to slow down and see the world's beauties: a warm breeze, a blade of grass, dappled light through a window shade. It's like I've lost the purest love I've ever known.<br />This more figurative emptiness comes along with a literal emptiness. My puppy-boy took up so much space in my home-- a home that has never entirely felt like home except for him-- that it now seems like my entire apartment has become negative space, an absence that only serves to emphasize what used to be there. I look at my carved wooden desk chair, and instead of ornate wood and the woven rug below it, I see the silhouette of my boy on the rug, below the chair, with him the only light spot and the rest cast into dark. A photo negative. Time has become relative. Last Sunday is now "zero hour," and I measure days as distance on a flattened timeline that started in the vet's office after our goodbyes. I lost my best friend, and I am heartbroken. I am worried that I will forget. I am both comforted and disturbed by the ghosts that linger in this place, this not-quite-home, the expectations of being greeted at the door and the head on my knee and the sudden alertness when the television sounded its chime upon turning off, when he realized bedtime treats were imminent and scampered to the bedroom door. It's a response-less stimulus, now, and I am left waiting for something that won't happen. Those responses are the spirits that waft through the air, their absence becoming as tangible as the dog toys and pill bottles that I had a neighbor place in a cabinet while I was at the vet.<br />
I know my dog was not a person, although I frequently referred to him as my favorite person in the world. I know that this grief is bound to be seen as excessive.<br />
And yet.<br />
Yesterday I had to admit to myself that I am not <i>okay</i>, I am far from <i>okay</i>, and that, in what may be the most incomprehensible thing of all, a large part of me doesn't want to be okay right now. Being okay (note: I hate that word, and yet look at me overusing it now) feels like a betrayal of my puppy boy (my little man, my baby boy, my mister, my Pip) and the role that he played in my life. I don't want to admit that life can and will move on, not <i>yet</i> that is, because a life without him doesn't feel like a life at all. I don't want to see the silver lining right now-- I only want to see the clouds that followed a sunlight so glorious that everyone marveled in its wake.<br />
My dog died, and he was only five years old. My dog died, and I am not okay. Maybe saying it is part of the process. Maybe I need to let the cracks stand in relief right now so that one day, not soon but eventually, the light will have a way to get in.<br />
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HollyGhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15508759472537622246noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1132503431665976114.post-3562211926399779042014-12-15T02:37:00.002-05:002014-12-15T02:37:43.960-05:00I lied, but now I tell the truthBefore, I swore-- more than a year ago-- that I had returned. I don't know what kept me from actually returning. It certainly wasn't that I was blissfully happy and off living a new, adventure-filled life; I can't actually remember what I was doing in May of 2013. I know that I was preparing to get a dog, thinking that he would somehow solve all of my problems. And I did get a dog, and he's wonderful and the love of my life, but he certainly didn't solve all of my problems. My problems remained, and added to that I was now responsible for someone else.<br />
I don't mean to make it sound like my life was-- or is-- horrible. It is not. It is FAR from horrible, much closer to lovely. But I know that last year was a very tough one, and I have a feeling that while the year before that cannot compare, it was also quite taxing, and while writing should be a way of coping with all of that, sometimes I feel that writing it all down actually <i>lifts the lid off the box</i>. Does that make sense? It's like putting pen to paper-- or finger to key, as the case may be-- takes things that were previously resting prettily, folded up in tissue paper and hidden in a secret corner, and makes them float out into the world, where they cannot be contained. More importantly, it makes them float up into my own consciousness, and suddenly I have to <i>deal with them</i>. I have to admit that they're present, and that can make them seem so much worse.<br />
An obsessive brain like mine often cannot let these things go. My brain dwells-- that's what it does. It also spins. I have to listen to podcasts at night, filtering in other people's words so that mine become diluted or filtered out entirely. So, to return back to my original thought, acknowledging those words by putting them down in writing makes it all the more difficult to tune them out. I also find it difficult to engage in the weighing of words that must happen when I blog if I wish to maintain my anonymity, that "goodnight dear void" quality of writing that would be sacrificed if these ruminations could be tied back to my real life beyond the page. I spend too much time in my daily life measuring words, scraping truths off the top like one does with excess flour; having to do so here would be excruciating. But, then, so would not writing. <i>So has been </i>not writing.<br />
So I return here with an unclear purpose: How to balance honesty with delusion? Anonymity with confession? Freedom with caution? I don't know. But I'm certainly going to try. Goodnight, dear void.<br />
<br />HollyGhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15508759472537622246noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1132503431665976114.post-27777532058644083002013-05-14T22:42:00.001-04:002013-05-14T22:42:51.121-04:00Years later...<div style="text-align: center;">
I'm back. I'm not quite sure what to make of this return yet, but I just need a place to <i>write</i>. To cultivate inspiration. To force myself to resurrect bits and pieces of who I used to be (while remaining true to my new, stronger self). I was happy when I wrote, and I'd like to be that way again.</div>
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HollyGhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15508759472537622246noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1132503431665976114.post-47337171650615979702010-11-03T22:02:00.005-04:002010-11-03T22:11:39.595-04:00just call me angel of the morning<div style="text-align: center;">Brooch. Brooch. <i>Brooch</i>.</div><div style="text-align: center;">One word, one syllable. So much more.</div><div style="text-align: center;">Yes, it's a little sparkle. But. It's also a throwback to another era...</div><div style="text-align: center;">It's class, joy, a ruby-lipped pout, a sepia still, pinned to a cardigan sweater.</div><div style="text-align: center;">It's beauty in a moment, and I'm thankful for that.</div><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 282px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh1rFGYw-3Id4YrFTNZZUzHIBbfWYdoJygX5HOY46Okh0uRLJlo-Vo_X87d9w1s9Sw9zNMHyllcVxJ782_kLVwcB803nIRdzu9Jvxceh8UIFV5K5jW_qVfr55sFGgdiGUSAIpBckDVDnx0/s400/thx_253.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5535510746472985714" /><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 392px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj-OkR6-SprXLsSI_KDpkN5LwmtmgS05un7d5DUtzL1doXzX9jKkb3796lpqcRB3g0hyphenhyphenEbzljf2uJZKCiw6jeJ9OUSepSZaahhx5z_lFMQA6xXOpFw4cTnqRLi4pzh_KKh2BZI-gTg-f_0/s400/broochbouquetsohjoy.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5535510169586062834" /><div style="text-align: center;">(<a href="http://thxthxthx.com/">THXTHXTHX</a>, <a href="http://ohjoy.blogs.com">Oh Joy!</a>)</div>HollyGhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15508759472537622246noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1132503431665976114.post-7814504410822093432010-10-26T22:49:00.003-04:002010-10-26T22:55:49.971-04:00in the wee small hours of the morning<div style="text-align: center;">I'm thinking about <i>Sleepless in Seattle</i>, and peeling an apple in one long, curly strip. Like magic.</div><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjS8-i3-PMPB09Fsjt6xZYFit-gQTs5Nesodzt6UkTv5z2dqv82_UvKQbG2VIZDtikDIzUMP5OsxSNtBDFrSJtCvQYGjpiaIqUGzC8lE7UohAkRtD5SdmtMoyN4Iek-NzNPArl4ywX3GFY/s400/sleepless-lgn.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5532553567506460386" /><div style="text-align: center;">You know my problem? I want to be in love in a movie. Houseboats and radios, tiramisu and teddy bears...bring it on. Let's catch that last elevator, shall we?</div>HollyGhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15508759472537622246noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1132503431665976114.post-88564947670256055052010-10-21T23:44:00.001-04:002010-10-21T23:45:59.664-04:00how do I get you alone<div style="text-align: center;"><object width="640" height="385"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/k7X7sZzSXYs?fs=1&hl=en_US"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/k7X7sZzSXYs?fs=1&hl=en_US" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="640" height="385"></embed></object></div><div style="text-align: center;">I love this. I love its whimsy, its soothing tones...but most of all, its message.</div>HollyGhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15508759472537622246noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1132503431665976114.post-86157371924087343392010-10-06T21:06:00.003-04:002010-10-06T21:58:51.422-04:00Thank you India, thank you frailty...<div style="text-align: left;">Honestly, the last few days have not been easy. I've alternated between poles of feeling fine and comforted, and then utterly depressed and despondent. I've gone between thinking myself beautiful and admiring my independence, to bemoaning my failings and looking at <i>his </i>profile...with a relationship status and wall postings that he's still (still!) neglected to tell me about. Thank you, social networking newsfeed, for messing with my mind.</div><div>But no matter. I've forced myself to start completing daily gratitude lists so that I don't forget that even though some big aspects of my life have strayed from the desired path, there are still plenty of daily joys. I am lucky, even though I may not acknowledge it sometimes. </div><div>I'm reading <i>Our Town</i> with the ninth-graders right now, and I can't help but see its applicability to my current circumstances. On the surface, my life may seem mundane, but it still has unique jewels that shine through; I have attempted to relive the past, but like Emily Webb, I've come to learn that there is beauty in the present: "Do any human beings ever realize life while they live it-- every, every minute?"</div><div>I have to believe that things will get better, a faith in the future which may negate my attempts to live in the present. This mixtape illustrates those hopes, so I call it "Better."</div><div><br /></div><div>1. "Better Things" by The Kinks</div><div>2. "There's Gotta Be Something Better Than This" from Sweet Charity</div><div>3. "Today Will Be Better, I Swear" by Stars</div><div>4. "Good Times Gonna Come" by Aqualung</div><div>5. "This Is Where It Gets Good" by Eels</div><div>6. "Better" by Regina Spektor</div><div>7. "Feeling Good" by My Brightest Diamond</div><div>8. "It's Gettin Better (Man!)" by Oasis</div><div>9. "The Good Stuff" by Schuyler Fisk</div><div>10. "I'm Gonna Make It Better" by She & Him</div><div>11. "Pretty Good Year" by Tori Amos</div><div>12. "Closer to Fine" by Indigo Girls</div><div>13. "Daydream Believer" by the Monkees</div><div>14. "Nobody Does It Better" by Radiohead</div><div>15. "Be Good to Yourself" by Journey</div><div>16. "Beautiful World" by Coldplay</div><div>17. "Good Heart" by the Mynabirds</div><div>18. "Better Days" by Goo Goo Dolls</div><div>19. "For Good" from Wicked</div><div>20. "At My Most Beautiful" by R.E.M.</div><div>21. "On Top of the World" by the Carpenters</div><div>22. "They Can't Take That Away From Me" by Ella Fitzgerald and Louis Armstrong</div><div>23. "Don't Dream It's Over" by Crowded House</div><div>24. "Up on the Roof" by James Taylor and Carole King</div><div>25. "Darlin Do Not Fear" by Brett Dennen</div><div>26. "Don't Look Back" by O.M.D.</div><div>27. "Learnalilgivinanlovin" by Jens Lekman</div><div>28. "What Me Worry" by St. Vincent</div><div><br /></div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjKdr4cWlbUIqLPpYGQWp_C7XanQ_ZuskK_HHXvh9fFA-hz4S-SZkOb1Nb7_kvJiOn6bunW4rGeMETkJocDf007eUkLGftjfs1Ugo07V7O5aIVqhAoPgjmzbGSPoAsBScsF01_o5U_oLU4/s400/hopeisthethingwithfeathers.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5525117352293531842" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 290px; height: 400px; " /></span><div>What songs would be on <i>your </i>"Better" mix? Please share! I need as much magical music as I can get.</div><div><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;">"you always said I was a dreamer</div><div style="text-align: center;">but now I know who's dreaming deep"</div><div style="text-align: center;">~stars~</div>HollyGhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15508759472537622246noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1132503431665976114.post-79050269189419785722010-10-04T00:05:00.003-04:002010-10-04T01:25:52.061-04:00We have no past, we won't reach back, keep with me forward all through the night...My friend Louise hit it right on the nose today: I live in the past instead of in the present.<div>On one level, this is good for my career: after all, a literature teacher has to not only understand but appreciate the past, not only understand context but live in it by loving it. However...</div><div>I remember too well. I hold onto memories like they're sign-posts, like life-preservers. I stay still instead of moving with the current. Every story that I tell, every reference point, is to college, or England, or New York, (or ex-bf). I haven't formed any new stories in the last three years. Well, I'm not exactly sure how to go about it...but it's time to take care of myself in more than one realm. My entire life cannot be my career. And honestly, I think I've used exbf as an excuse to avoid moving forward, and now that he's moved forward-- for real this time-- it brings my pathetic reliance on him into too-harsh light. My anger's not at him for being happy: it's at myself for not doing enough to make <i>me </i>happy.</div><div>How do you let the sign-posts and life-preservers <i>go</i>, though, when you've gotten used to being stuck? I can't even picture myself doing something crazy, like dating, or like re-structuring my life so that a boy who got it wrong a lot of the time is not the locus of my romantic orbit. I really have fallen into a rut: my life resembles <i>Our Town</i> not just in its simple joys but in its supreme absence of risk and its reliance on routine. How do I start? How do I get back some of what I was in the past without dwelling in it, but while propelling myself forward to the future? I just don't want to be Blanche DuBois, fictionalizing and falsifying, dwelling in a beautiful dream of yesteryear at the expense of joy, sanity, and the foreseeable future...</div><div><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;">"And the seasons they go round and round</div><div style="text-align: center;">And the painted ponies go up and down</div><div style="text-align: center;">We're captive on a carousel of time</div><div style="text-align: center;">We can't return, we can only look behind from where we came</div><div style="text-align: center;">And go round and round and round in the circle game."</div><div style="text-align: center;">~joni mitchell~</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;">"Can't repeat the past? Why of course you can!"</div><div style="text-align: center;">~<i>the great gatsby</i>~</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;">"I was blinded from the constant looking back: Lot's wife. I only ever saw the gathering clouds."</div><div style="text-align: center;">~<i>the poisonwood bible</i>~</div>HollyGhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15508759472537622246noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1132503431665976114.post-59657509423566302422010-09-26T22:35:00.002-04:002016-01-21T12:59:10.038-05:00like the cactus tree...being free...I bring it back again-- the metaphor of the cactus tree, full and hollow, according to lovely Joni's words. I hope that you've had the chance to listen to the song, but in a nutshell, it's about a girl who avoids commitment in favor of self-actualization and freedom. I always come back to it: the idea of the beauties and treasures relationships can bring, but the paralysis they sometimes cause; the competing tensions of security and wanderlust. A heart that's full and hollow, indeed.<br />
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This image has borne down especially heavily upon me this weekend. Without revealing too much about myself, I'll say that this weekend marked the nupitals of one ex-best-friend from college, a toxic friend who caused me much insecurity in the past and is the major reason that I've resisted having an all-consuming "best friend" ever since. In college, I was the one who dreamed smaller and pictured myself settling down sooner rather than later; she dreamed of Ph.D.s and shining seas, a successful career and exotic locale. Then I introduced her to her now-husband. Then we had a falling-out when I realized the crushing nature of her friendship and her sabotage of several of my romantic relationships. Then I went abroad and grew and thrived, moved to Manhattan, then to DC, then back to the midwest, all the while dreaming about new lands to conquer and new adventures to be had. I loved and lost and finally loved myself more. My need for adventure outshone my desire for marriage, while she moved to the suburbs, abandoned professorship, taught the lower grades (when she'd always rebuked my desire to teach high school), got engaged and now married...to the man she would not have met were it not for me. Odd, huh?</div>
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Three things have preoccupied me in the last few days and have led to several soul-sucking nightmares. First of all, if I consider my wanderlust and dedication to my career a choice, than why do I consider her marriage a "good thing" that happened to a "bad person"? What does that say about me that despite everything I've achieved, I still consider my life to be incomplete because a ring "gives a woman's life value"? Second, assuming I've reconciled the "good thing" question, why <i>do</i> good things happen to bad people? Whatever happened to karma, and when will I get my due? The last few years may have been exciting, but they have never been easy or stable. Third, is a desire for adventure and travel and self-reliance incompatible with security and marriage? I keep having these nightmares that I get married but I know intuitively that it is wrong: either I can't fathom "forever," or I know I've chosen the wrong person, or I feel like I'm being untrue to myself by allying myself with somebody else. Still, despite these anxieties, I still find myself peering at other women's engagement rings and wondering if others judge me to be deficient in some way because I don't have a man. My best friends are all either married or in a serious relationship that will lead to marriage, and I often don't fit in with their discussions or gatherings. It's a tough battle to face, especially alone. And then I wonder whether my life is really that free...most of the time, my head seems absorbed with other people's concerns and more and more demands pressed upon my energy.</div>
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I wish these thoughts weren't on my mind. I wish that my ex-best-friend had gotten her karmic dose and fooled fewer people (even though I then feel terrible for wishing someone ill). I wish I found someone who would allow me my freedom. I wish that I were less drained of energy and could therefore force myself to see the beauty in my life. I wish that sleep soothed me instead of plaguing me. I just wish for answers and for a semblance of resolve that I have made the right choices and that good things are in my future.</div>
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"You don't want to love-- your eternal and abnormal craving is to be loved. You aren't positive, you're negative. You absorb, absorb, as if you must fill yourself up with love, because you've got a shortage somewhere."</div>
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"Let yourself fall in love, if you haven't done so already. You are wasting your life."</div>
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"I want to live my life so that my nights are not full of regret."</div>
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HollyGhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15508759472537622246noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1132503431665976114.post-84540292442871033062010-08-22T23:04:00.005-04:002010-08-22T23:41:13.713-04:00catch a falling star (don't let me fall, stars)<div><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhXVdB7fYfioHi7q_B5r20vdBhSmAZ_LnKBwOFR75j4jasphlTRrt-z-nuGy2PGL7GuLX6PKKFe6865zlKNS-dfOnyoEghmHXaIgodh_au2I8egbcvyvAGsQhxcPMBxJa3hJXh9lgXx0h8/s400/DSC00464.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5508442262501498610" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 300px; " /></div><div style="text-align: center;">I can't sleep, so I feel the need to hide in the poetry of it all.</div><div style="text-align: center;">I long for gold shimmer glinting off smooth canal waters and soft words whispered in my ear.</div><div style="text-align: center;">Hands clasp my waist and suspend me, Phoenix-like, off railings and over ripples.</div><div style="text-align: center;">You may turn me to ash, but I will rise up in renewal and joy.</div><div style="text-align: center;">You may break me, but my ruins will be my rebirth.</div><div style="text-align: center;">Raise me up: let me gaze upon you from on high and let all traces of soot fade to cool green.</div><div style="text-align: center;">In reflection, upside down, my world makes more sense to me; an inverted hourglass under the bridge.</div><div style="text-align: center;">An undying balance, acres between me and raw and cruel.</div><div style="text-align: center;">I am and will be the center of my story.</div><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiujdR2JsdIUdykSmwK8yHraoFlwseV-CtQSCXYv5_u1baNYLooGxweNJKIHQtxKelk-PoW_YIAaodjr8x6LCp80H9C1rTgSckSKIswiG9baFa79uedPF1rj9SIfmCNvcD4LtdBRM77rRs/s400/DSC00499.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5508443052818032642" /><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhFma8e7IA4xyFy4CwruosCybpfoYQ2_FtBUfSsmiUk3l5mjEs0TBcG5tdJWm6Rf9Z8WMo1coTT7dMu4H010zer8TTc8vhk4dj05JRgyhE7I_inkQ3CJ-6HToUnFDCa4RbUWJ6mc1EP79Q/s400/DSC00502.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5508442798351265202" /><div></div><div style="text-align: center;">"Let the world forsake me,</div><div style="text-align: center;">Let them do their worst,</div><div style="text-align: center;">I shall withstand it all,</div><div style="text-align: center;">They will not break me."</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;">...And so it is</div><div style="text-align: center;">Just like you said it should be</div><div style="text-align: center;">We'll both forget the breeze</div><div style="text-align: center;">Most of the time</div><div style="text-align: center;">And so it is</div><div style="text-align: center;">The colder water</div><div style="text-align: center;">The blower's daughter</div><div style="text-align: center;">The pupil in denial...</div>HollyGhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15508759472537622246noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1132503431665976114.post-55505491152301532212010-07-31T21:03:00.002-04:002010-07-31T21:06:52.813-04:00You won't get too far from me believing everything you read<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgKDpESVX6bkXyox7Ud6xNziifUp80lIZEM_s7aPNvUFWtLabZxOItFTHpbM26Ct8cOOoo6bSAI9yEmwXEizGtbniBtuLeajJK6RDlklNVCrAEW3r2ox2JlRQSqfh8pxteRH_MeTaGmwe0/s1600/PJB_amsterdamjordaan.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 377px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgKDpESVX6bkXyox7Ud6xNziifUp80lIZEM_s7aPNvUFWtLabZxOItFTHpbM26Ct8cOOoo6bSAI9yEmwXEizGtbniBtuLeajJK6RDlklNVCrAEW3r2ox2JlRQSqfh8pxteRH_MeTaGmwe0/s400/PJB_amsterdamjordaan.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5500241149131542642" /></a><div style="text-align: center;">Leaving for Amsterdam tomorrow! It's going to be rainy, but I'm sure the old stone streets reflected in puddles will be doubly lovely. <a href="http://blog.piajanebijkerk.com/WordPress/">Pia's</a> photographs have been providing welcome inspiration and excitement.</div>HollyGhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15508759472537622246noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1132503431665976114.post-8955094360480359392010-07-29T21:59:00.003-04:002010-07-29T22:13:22.039-04:00I saw the best minds of my generation destroyed by madness, starving hysterical naked<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEigbxH_rwt7ThvWu0tb-tOjepQspg-jK_hijEwR2Fp813szMVt9A52LT5tChnga7KD4zLDDxi5edHS9XdgGcFre6MJyY4n2ezzHmqBH8OiUKKtdUWN2i8iP1PK-RoPvYwcbxixZd-Ibloc/s1600/Howl_poster.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 271px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEigbxH_rwt7ThvWu0tb-tOjepQspg-jK_hijEwR2Fp813szMVt9A52LT5tChnga7KD4zLDDxi5edHS9XdgGcFre6MJyY4n2ezzHmqBH8OiUKKtdUWN2i8iP1PK-RoPvYwcbxixZd-Ibloc/s400/Howl_poster.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5499513586936069058" /></a><div style="text-align: center;">I can't wait. September 24th.</div><div style="text-align: center;">"angelheaded hipsters burning for the ancient heavenly connection to the starry dynamo in the machinery of night..."</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;">On another intellectual note, I have not yet met my summer goal to finish reading <i>Lolita</i>, and it's almost back to school time! (and I'm woefully underprepared) It's a good thing that I have 9 hours on a plane on Sunday.</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;">That's right, dearest readers-- I'm going to AMSTERDAM! I've never been before, and I'm so excited. It will be a whirlwind trip, because I have to go to a wedding in Poland after, but I'm hoping to absorb as much culture-- and a bit of obligatory tourism-- as I can in 3.5 days. Do you have any words of advice, suggested itineraries, or "must see" places? Or phonetic pronunciations of Dutch words?</div>HollyGhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15508759472537622246noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1132503431665976114.post-61934989714948974862010-07-28T23:58:00.004-04:002010-07-29T00:16:05.693-04:00we're all the same, the men of anger and the women of the page<div style="text-align: center;"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 333px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhs7RilXd0gSXW6vIxeRwXzTadLRmfAweUdv3icOZ-BIWQFY4d6IIaLFJYlLt_ueCx6KRd188RN_c_jOSBo8DlE75va0_8xS5XPkx4c0DBcAbZFScbVsJOjreDeXcmb_qXdTdJ9pIidX3s/s400/breakfastattiffany's.png" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5499176627058724002" /></div><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj7GGhKHRk-uMrVSRFGHAVkfH02ZLodQOrXAiqgDxY-WEynkULSiqOdkzoSnt68MJxEgzzf9lUeNg4JtoUTwPpzTkXc7kgjMkpZxlxxbDm3DqbpZ5WIpzAapAn7PB9Pcwmq1lfdCDKOicQ/s1600/whyreadingmatters.png"></a>I promised to publish the second "manifesto" that impressed me. Now, forgive the writing; I will say that the sentence structure leaves something to be desired and sometimes have the philosophical wordiness of an art history textbook. (Have you ever tried to read one of those? Pure torture.) However, the sentiments ring pure: sharing the joy of the written word, recreating the fleeting nature of poetry through their own mobility, spreading the self-improvement institution that is the library, and growing wisdom throughout the world. I'm talking about the <a href="http://www.tipl.info/">Itinerant Poetry Librarian</a>. <div><br /></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" line-height: 14px; font-family:'Lucida Grande', Lucida, Verdana, sans-serif;font-size:12px;">In terms of the project’s philosophy: it touches on so many things that to try and sum it up in one neat sentence just isn’t possible. But now that we’ve had some time to sit down and collate our thoughts, if you will, we can tell you that the major issues we touch on, and are seeking to negotiate, are: the idea of poetry as a unique form of human communication, and thus a unique form of <em>knowledge</em>; and the idea of the public library as both recycling-knowledge space and civic space – concepts which we believe can also be used as models for sustainable growth in order to oust ourselves from the current cul de sac that is consumer-led, maximum profit-centred culture.<br /><br />Surrounding these two core theories is the concept of liminality, both in the architectural sense: the conceptual, ephemeral relationships between people and spatial environments (installation and live performance art as a practice of liminality, library practice beyond physical building environments); and in the post-feminist (Luce Irigaray) and post-structuralist (Michel Foucault) sense of the hybridisation of forms of knowledge, experience and practice, that is, an exploration based on where and how ‘things’ meet, rather than where and how ‘things’ become ‘separate’ or are examined on the basis of differentiation. The blurring of borders and boundaries: that’s what we’re interested in exploring, the periphery of the periphery – or, as one recent new member of the library put it, the event horizon, in fact.<br /><br />In terms of the ‘liminality’ of our library, this is essentially represented in both the library practice itself – operating without the confines of a building, so we literally install the library pretty much <em>anywhere</em> we manage to get to – and in the ‘liminal’ ethos of the library’s collection of items. The collection ethos – our acquisition policy, seeks to recognise and re-negotiate the ephemeral nature of poetry, in the sense of both its oralcy, and its continued existence in the outer realms of the ‘literature’ world. So, as you see, we’re back to the periphery of the periphery again.<br /><br />Floating amongst all this are several further conceptual and literal explorations of sustainability: which centre on the core concepts of sharing and redistribution (of resources, knowledge etc.) and collectivity (working together, sharing together). These ideas have been generated, and expanded, throughout the project’s timeline, as we continued to explore, and find ourselves necessarily negotiating, these ideas (and thus their practical applications) in order to quite literally operate the project, in and of itself, and to maintain the ongoing growth and development of the project through time.<br /><br />All of these ideas feed in to, and seek to help address, what we see as the key issues of our time: recognising the limits of our world’s resources, recognising that we may live ‘alone’ but that we share this world with others, recognising that the answers we seek are best addressed by a collective, civic-mindedness, that places health, education, lifelong learning, and ‘life experience’ above and beyond the pearly gates of simply making money.<br /><br />Anyone can make money. It’s what you do with it that counts.<br /><br />Essentially, we see that our work is about re-placing these notions of humanity, these values, back into our cultures: for if we do not, our cultures, our world – we – will not survive. Bertolt Brecht asked <i>“What keeps mankind alive?”</i> All the world over people have been answering his question, but the answers have been getting quieter and more and more subsumed by the burble of consumer-led culture.<br /><br /><i>It’s time to reclaim the conversation, and sing a song for (wo)mankind once again.</i><br /><br />In homage to Brecht, our recent engagement with all things library-related and Germany, and our vision of the library as the curated collective mind and knowledge-space of our species, we’re christening this movement, this mindset, this concept and practice as:<br /><br /><b>Gymendecology</b>.<br /><br />It investigates human development from a systems analysis point of view, starting with the:<br /><br /><b>D</b> (Data) ---> <b>I</b> (Information) ---> <b>K</b> (Knowledge) ---> <b>W</b> (Wisdom) model.<br /><br />It encompasses:<br /><br /><b>Sustainability</b> (Ecology of the Library)<br /><b>Collectivity</b> (The Commons / Copyright / The Library)<br /><b>Recycling</b> (The Library)<br /><b>Alternative Distribution</b> (Publishing / The Internet / The Library)<br /><b>Redistribution</b> (Publishing / The Internet / The Library)<br /><b>Liminality</b> (The Library / Poetry)<br /><b>Civics</b> (The Library as Civic Space / Democracy / Human Rights)<br /><b>Civility</b> (The Library as Citizen Space / Collective Social Minded-ness / Democracy / Human Rights)<br /><b>Welfare</b> (The Library as Knowledge Portal for Lifelong Learning and Development)<br /><b>Society & Culture</b> (The Library as Collective Cultural Archive / Knowledge Curator)<br /><br />It is about exploring knowledge, and how we ‘attain’ or ‘acquire’ knowledge, as humans, from birth to death, and how this feeds and sustains our evolution, our development, as a species.</span></div><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj7GGhKHRk-uMrVSRFGHAVkfH02ZLodQOrXAiqgDxY-WEynkULSiqOdkzoSnt68MJxEgzzf9lUeNg4JtoUTwPpzTkXc7kgjMkpZxlxxbDm3DqbpZ5WIpzAapAn7PB9Pcwmq1lfdCDKOicQ/s400/whyreadingmatters.png" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5499176908401094514" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 149px; height: 400px; color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; " /><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "><br /></span></div>HollyGhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15508759472537622246noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1132503431665976114.post-17689031468863433222010-07-27T01:18:00.003-04:002010-07-27T01:56:15.296-04:00hear my song, it will show you the way you can shine<div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhh6wlmiG8NCf5qQZ270sQxC1L5eB6L4mc4wMZCho2P6vlqQ-83H9fbEzsRRPp60ZtIFqo0pkASD-Y7QGDYjDlv3YeXK1D673ZBC7P93g32eRMCsbsM_kR3i7ahYO6W9hRkhESIFvENwPU/s1600/Picture+11.png"></a>Generally I am not a fan of the manifesto or "mission statement," if you will; they get too close to standing on a soapbox. Being polemical or belligerent, often being narrow-minded and damaging in their speech...it is impossible to argue with someone on a verbal rampage, because they never seek to learn, but rather seek to reassert their own "correct" opinion. <i>Ad hominem</i>, etcetera. If there's one thing that I think could destroy our world, it's human beings with reductive thoughts and hate in their hearts.<div>Phew. Excuse my own little manifesto. </div><div>Anyway, the point of this post is point out two people who get the manifesto <i>right</i>-- it's about what they <i>believe</i>, not what <i>is</i>. It's a way of life, a preferred way, but one that is still personal to the believer and anyone else who might self-elect into belief. It is not the only way; it is not denigrating to others; and most importantly, it comes from a place of love and beauty and learning. Anyone who seeks to be a life-long learner and purveyor of wisdom is a-ok in my book.</div><div>The first of these? Miss (now Mrs., officially!) <a href="http://theneotraditionalist.com/">Katie Armour</a>, whose neotraditional style is after my own heart (although mine might have a bit more bohemia thrown in). It's a philosophy of loveliness and simple beauties:</div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" color: rgb(51, 51, 51); line-height: 19px; font-family:'Lucida Grande', Verdana, Arial, sans-serif;font-size:14px;"><h1 style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; font-family: CACChampagneRegular, 'Times New Roman'; font-size: 48px; font-weight: normal; line-height: 48px; text-align: center; ">We believe…</h1><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; text-align: center; "></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; text-align: center; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.3px; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); ">We believe in being glass-half-full sorts of girls.</span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; text-align: center; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.3px; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); "><br /></span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; text-align: center; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.3px; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); ">We believe that often times, granny </span></span><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; text-decoration: underline; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); ">is</span></span><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.3px; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); "> chic.</span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; text-align: center; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.3px; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); "><br /></span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; text-align: center; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.3px; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); ">We believe in peddling vintage Schwinns with flower baskets.</span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; text-align: center; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.3px; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); "><br /></span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; text-align: center; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.3px; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); ">We believe in poetry, picnics, and </span></span><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; letter-spacing: 0px; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); ">piñatas.</span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; text-align: center; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; letter-spacing: 0px; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); "><br /></span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; text-align: center; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.3px; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); ">We believe one is never too old to keep a diary, the secrets only grow more scandalous.</span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; text-align: center; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.3px; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); "><br /></span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; text-align: center; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.3px; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); ">We believe in arranging fresh flowers unruly like an English garden.</span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; text-align: center; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.3px; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); "><br /></span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; text-align: center; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.3px; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); ">We believe in adventure and traveling the globe, be it to Marrakech or Malibu.</span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; text-align: center; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.3px; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); "><br /></span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; text-align: center; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.3px; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); ">We believe in mixing lucite with oriental rugs. Thrift store finds with heirlooms.</span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; text-align: center; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.3px; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); "><br /></span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; text-align: center; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.3px; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); ">We believe in handwritten thank you notes, better late than never.</span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; text-align: center; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.3px; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); "><br /></span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; text-align: center; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.3px; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); ">We believe in needlepoint, letterpress, decoupage and forgiving Martha Stewart.</span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; text-align: center; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.3px; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); "><br /></span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; text-align: center; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.3px; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); ">We believe in piggy banks and cookie jars.</span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; text-align: center; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.3px; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); "><br /></span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; text-align: center; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.3px; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); ">We believe in book clubs full of Fitzgerald, Hemingway, Austen and Woolf.</span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; text-align: center; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.3px; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); "><br /></span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; text-align: center; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.3px; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); ">We believe station wagons are hopelessly chic.</span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; text-align: center; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.3px; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); "><br /></span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; text-align: center; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.3px; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); ">We believe in recycling our Grandmothers’ names. Eloise, Jackie, Faye…</span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; text-align: center; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.3px; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); "><br /></span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; text-align: center; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.3px; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); ">We believe in collecting: stamps, shells, books, big glittering diamonds…</span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; text-align: center; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.3px; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); "><br /></span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; text-align: center; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.3px; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); ">We believe in marrying the boy that writes us the best love letters.</span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; text-align: center; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.3px; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); "><br /></span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; text-align: center; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.3px; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); ">We believe in highly competitive board games—Chess, Scrabble, Chutes & Ladders.</span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; text-align: center; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.3px; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); "><br /></span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; text-align: center; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.3px; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); ">We believe in spontaneous road trips and charming, chintzy bed & breakfasts.</span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; text-align: center; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.3px; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); "><br /></span></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; text-align: center; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.3px; "><span style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); ">We believe there’s something to fortune cookies, wishbones and 4 leaf clovers.</span></span></p><h4 style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; font-family: VegurExtraLight; font-size: 28px; font-weight: normal; text-align: center; ">We believe in classics, shaken and stirred.</h4><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#000066;">How can you argue with that? But the best part is, if someone does and peddles Philip Roth and Dan Brown, or even if someone differs slightly (like me) and wouldn't mind being the one writing the love letters instead of the other way around, that's just fine. Either we can shake our heads and marvel at the differences in others' tastes, or we can invite all the chipped teacups under the umbrella (that's a mixed metaphor if there ever was one!) and appreciate them for what they might be able to offer us. Maybe the manifesto will even change with time...</span></span></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#000066;">Check back tomorrow for the second manifesto-maker-made-good. I'm sleepy, and I have a meeting with Sir Department Chair tomorrow that will not permit me to laze the day away. Goodnight, dear ones...</span></span></span></div></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhh6wlmiG8NCf5qQZ270sQxC1L5eB6L4mc4wMZCho2P6vlqQ-83H9fbEzsRRPp60ZtIFqo0pkASD-Y7QGDYjDlv3YeXK1D673ZBC7P93g32eRMCsbsM_kR3i7ahYO6W9hRkhESIFvENwPU/s400/Picture+11.png" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5498459383014200242" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 329px; height: 270px; " /></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#000066;">Thought bubble: I'll take the ride, and you may not hop into the driver's seat, but maybe you'll be an occasional travel companion, or at least a slightly-unwilling-but-still-smiling-because-my-enthusiasm-about-randomness-is-what-makes-me-<i>me</i> listener to my tales.</span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#000066;">"Of shoes-- and ships-- and sealing wax</span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="-webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#000066;">Of cabbages-- and kings--"</span></span></div>HollyGhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15508759472537622246noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1132503431665976114.post-23029271536339358592010-07-25T00:43:00.008-04:002010-07-25T01:26:14.324-04:00a moment, a love, a dream, a laugh, a kiss, a cry, our rights, our wrongs...<div style="text-align: center;">To know where you're going, you must know where you've been.</div><div><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 311px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiOWD6v2cBWUQJ9hF41XYXmB7mK3Ctq45P4iFSqnEqfflcl8i3Sx73JWNwbEvAXkebHoyqrvYX6tC8mOB_bD40YBVF8iKHKnxPJ6_Bagcrg_XWLuqU2fAaUOZpKks2M3Fvu-aUMI1JQ5L0/s400/jamesdean.png" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5497703276615423874" /></div><div style="text-align: center;">Seeing you last week...I knew that half of my heart is still yours. We fit together...like dessert spoons. Like pinkies.</div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiwmrNFUxl4Y84nsi8eFuWVN8xrm9X56TTCgzCIztEYu8qfbzbK7DLt82hYTLCSsuRlGXVoK61rcZa1lB8PryV7pd-bGUSlmuo7Q0euAK66ic0pnwjAHtjgHGQgDTfHdIy46yPY6rAy6wY/s400/eccentricinagreatway.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5497704791925038370" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 225px; " /></span><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#000066;">But our </span><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#000066;">lives</span></i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#000066;"> will never be compatible. Nor can I trust you. Sometimes, though, I worry that I've exhausted my supply of love-- and then I tell myself that we are in the past, a different us ("not as we") is in the present, and I-- and someone special-- will be in the future.</span></div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 238); -webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline; "><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhOOHqws9fMRWRrDjOyeiCnQ6DKqgl1cTdS4ikVp_XnkxkDtpKhM1fknfiMWsbpRzfcruIBPK3nezDFzLSLsddgg135wqaG56yWa1EWrH70fsUKIkuhLslnc90wC4CHbGgDX7D6gp_elAY/s400/sabrinadavidlarrabee.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5497706452797708418" style="display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 364px; height: 400px; " /></span><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#000066;">What has been will be...but right, this time. You and I...we'll be fine. And in the meantime, I'll climb peaks and precipices and make masterpieces wherever I go..."like a cactus tree..."</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#000066;"><br /></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#000066;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">"I want to speak with you in the round vowels</span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#000066;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">of your own language</span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#000066;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">to tell you how</span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#000066;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">I've named you myth and memory,</span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#000066;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">how I've made you a half-god."</span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#000066;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">~Patricia Fargnoli~</span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#000066;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><br /></span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#000066;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">"The woman who follows the crowd will usually go no further than the crowd. The woman who walks alone is likely to find herself in places no one has ever been before."</span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#000066;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">~Albert Einstein~</span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#000066;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><br /></span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#000066;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">"In Greek, nostalgia literally means the pain from an old wound. It's a twinge in your heart, far more powerful than memory alone. This device isn't a spaceship, it's a time machine. It goes backwards, forwards. It takes us to a place where we ache to go again. It's not called a wheel, it's called a carousel. It lets us travel the way a child travels. Round and around, and back home again. To a place where we know we are loved."</span></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#000066;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">~Don Draper, </span></span><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#000066;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">Mad Men</span></span></i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#000066;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">~</span></span></div>HollyGhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15508759472537622246noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1132503431665976114.post-55430263453637250302010-07-23T00:54:00.004-04:002010-07-23T01:22:40.125-04:00"It would be magical. There'd be a tree fort involved. And Christmas lights."<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgIQf6jz_u6Q8T3Vr6YYfxbCkfaAgkQEvXn0p6fr0U3mYJaZ-ZseEQWLwKWWRNxyG472mMZ5ZhneEjNSTlbz7LVfVC2kZa_B4aufc9_02CEtQ9OqLA7F1T1tC735JaI1cBnPFgRr0b9bFc/s1600/Pashley-web.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 347px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgIQf6jz_u6Q8T3Vr6YYfxbCkfaAgkQEvXn0p6fr0U3mYJaZ-ZseEQWLwKWWRNxyG472mMZ5ZhneEjNSTlbz7LVfVC2kZa_B4aufc9_02CEtQ9OqLA7F1T1tC735JaI1cBnPFgRr0b9bFc/s400/Pashley-web.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5496965581588213074" /></a><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 226px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj7lCIoj7I-bcyBtfmcoPNSssPKAxJFKm1oc7udU1n3G7gLl5ZJ53xuMDaO5hUkO4ohZbmckRJuRcltoeLg7HJvQOlw8R0dDglxJnrhInWxbv2ZRqaTzpgPTn90NPwYaaQkyqvuJKwnxmI/s400/ihavefunbikesprint.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5496964199899140930" /><div style="text-align: center;">I know, it's been a while...but to make it up to you, here is a new mixtape tracklist! It's called "I Like Bikes."</div><div><br /></div><div>1. "Don't Worry, I'm Yours" mash-up by DJ Dain featuring Jason Mraz and Bobby McFerrin</div><div>2. "King of Anything" by Sara Bareilles</div><div>3. "I'll Try Anything Once" by Julian Casablancas</div><div>4. "Tonight the Streets Are Ours" by Richard Hawley</div><div>5. "Touch Me" by the Doors</div><div>6. "I'm Into Something Good" by the Bird and the Bee</div><div>7. "Grace Kelly" by Mika</div><div>8. "Don't Stand So Close to Me" by the Police</div><div>9. "Better" by Regina Spektor</div><div>10. "Little Lion Man" by Mumford & Sons</div><div>11. "Last Request" by Paulo Nutini</div><div>12. "Rambling Man" by Laura Marling</div><div>13. "Haven't Met You Yet" by Michael Buble</div><div>14. "Nightingales" by Sondre Lerche & the Faces</div><div>15. "Bravedancing" by Rachael Sage</div><div>16. "Tangled Up In Blue" by Bob Dylan</div><div>17. "Islands" by the xx</div><div>18. "Kisses Over Babylon" by Edward Sharpe and the Magnetic Zeros</div><div>19. "Jungle Drum" by Emiliana Torrini</div><div>20. "Luckiest Guy on the Lower East Side" by the Magnetic Fields</div><div>21. "Say Goodbye to Hollywood" by Billy Joel</div><div>22. "Home" by She & Him</div><div>23. "Trouble Comes Running" by Spoon</div><div>24. "Caught Up in You" by .38 Special</div><div>25. "The Only Living Boy in New York" by Simon & Garfunkel</div>HollyGhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15508759472537622246noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1132503431665976114.post-33236748990038516162010-06-09T19:15:00.008-04:002010-06-09T19:20:01.767-04:00A you're adorable, B you're beautiful<div style="text-align: center;">Did anyone else know that sloths were this cute? Precious.</div><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi_Jc6zcu4DWzRQWyHabHoU2kJ14VX1PSinAtaLV4IeCvsSJZ5pi-18o2vlsnYbe6hhWFmEiq-xDE5SXrPJDqFNeUsz_U78KJEncvwN2nvPwrXQf_7lFdddiXCm-VDYcIFfSfqtp_s72Fc/s1600/sloth1.png"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 246px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi_Jc6zcu4DWzRQWyHabHoU2kJ14VX1PSinAtaLV4IeCvsSJZ5pi-18o2vlsnYbe6hhWFmEiq-xDE5SXrPJDqFNeUsz_U78KJEncvwN2nvPwrXQf_7lFdddiXCm-VDYcIFfSfqtp_s72Fc/s400/sloth1.png" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5480917222114788450" /></a><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 319px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi_2N-LWADt5_nw6ULV33-yf5AryycQzrx8MAdLLp6SpeH7G5PfmDjjNVvpIM96APnvK77qQc65kDj6G7pQNNOwUACO3kWbjZ_5SVy3UWhgb4b6_-8SmRKiT1o0POUkKrqchavwTBpF3k4/s400/sloth3.png" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5480917138547553330" /><div style="text-align: center;"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 316px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg8sEFXfqGY_iUNEwmL5bEckTQFa22dflj5g7VgULKAss_UFRsZBpTxtIvAAuu7qckWmBawaxNDxX7drMFsN248ef7LhyphenhyphenUlb16meMO8ybhwFMhGoE9pMMKGzBoyDP2TzXobtMDAz9g9vYw/s400/sloth4.png" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5480917070449702418" /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 313px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgGwQi1tZUPasRTl-k3UR_lL_hMA7zpo_0jk2rHasMDeZaLzbRkhhghqbrkWldwy0MFOOjh4iq3QMT3AG4JrK1z5IlENrTIiL4Beq1jZyD9RTVzpZKD2P7ZZFMYA_GoxKtdvS-cJuf51sU/s400/sloth5.png" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5480916985268726274" /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 311px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh_X01TWbLWOPLVEjAb14BXrAv2Tv1hJbliYn944d-G0Y2ucRqeeeYdGY3LluvFi7h6Qd7FU9iAKSIx5dsPmE25FQlP7AnrjjmYJyO0hppjT9ZvHk5Dkfde5VgSuznFHobH-qCw5ngMxR0/s400/sloth6.png" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5480916885524568498" /></div>HollyGhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15508759472537622246noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1132503431665976114.post-88641645173814264752010-06-05T21:57:00.003-04:002010-06-05T22:23:39.313-04:00I'm trying to get down to the heart of the matter<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhCZEAFHBfVcGLPMn5J9tQIcsArG2zkrKU3UpIt7o4lEU1Ri2ehHdJt3t7sc9Q6R063qetHOeY6zfE4yvBTzRlW5yiik1WCiYfYqh6WLisyI66Yf-TMnDXjU719IslTK_WG6uX82ytOsJk/s1600/michellewilliamspixiesprite.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 319px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhCZEAFHBfVcGLPMn5J9tQIcsArG2zkrKU3UpIt7o4lEU1Ri2ehHdJt3t7sc9Q6R063qetHOeY6zfE4yvBTzRlW5yiik1WCiYfYqh6WLisyI66Yf-TMnDXjU719IslTK_WG6uX82ytOsJk/s400/michellewilliamspixiesprite.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5479479903277836466" /></a><div style="text-align: center;">I know I've been absent for a while, but...</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;">I SURVIVED MY FIRST YEAR OF TEACHING!!</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;">I'm utterly exhausted right now and already missing my kiddos, and it's difficult for me to not dwell in everything I could have done so much better, but I know that the two months to just BE and to actually develop a life outside of my teaching will be vital.</div><div style="text-align: center;">Rejuvenation, here I come.</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;">"The power is in the balance: we are our injuries, as much as we are our successes."</div><div style="text-align: center;"><i>~the poisonwood bible~</i></div>HollyGhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15508759472537622246noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1132503431665976114.post-68955597502290594012010-05-21T18:05:00.003-04:002010-05-21T18:11:19.550-04:00why does it always rain on me<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj7o1wR_uhMCdim4uwxctZJd-7027BgdH7u4AyeChK4J79vcs9Hm8Z4mP08ZvNfLrUNJY5kqMvXQGYB_g-GqU5MHamWLiLoyQj4EOud8eqxegHiqjTQcTjFiHTyzQPAGEp6PyLTI2lVFiI/s1600/bootnewzealand.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 267px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj7o1wR_uhMCdim4uwxctZJd-7027BgdH7u4AyeChK4J79vcs9Hm8Z4mP08ZvNfLrUNJY5kqMvXQGYB_g-GqU5MHamWLiLoyQj4EOud8eqxegHiqjTQcTjFiHTyzQPAGEp6PyLTI2lVFiI/s400/bootnewzealand.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5473848038827635106" /></a><div style="text-align: center;">How incredible! You can literally live in a shoe...in New Zealand. Tasman Bay, Nelson, New Zealand, to be more specific. It stirs up my wanderlust, which has been irrepressible lately. More information on <a href="http://www.airbnb.com/rooms/13022">The Boot</a>, yours for $160 a night:</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; color: rgb(47, 47, 47); font-size: 12px; line-height: 15px; "><p style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; font-size: 13px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;">The Boot is a retreat ideal for romantic weekends and special occasions. Our private boutique bed and breakfast accommodation is a two storey cottage in the shape of a giant boot, furnished especially for two. It is located in the heart of the beautiful Tasman region, centrally between the Able Tasman National Park, Kahurangi National Park and Nelson. A perfect position for exploring the highlights of Tasman Bay, Nelson, New Zealand.</span></p><p style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; font-size: 13px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;">The Boot stands nestled within a grove of hazelnut trees. Outside, the courtyard, surrounded by a fragrant garden, offers sun loungers for relaxing on hot afternoons and an alfresco dining area for spending lazy evenings beside the outdoor fireplace. Inside luxuriate on the comfy couch in front of the open fire, or enjoy an early night in the comfort of the upstairs bedroom. In the morning your choice of breakfast will be delivered to the door.</span></p><p style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; font-size: 13px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;">Our relaxed, quiet bed and breakfast adopts sustainable practices without deterring from the luxury experience that we want all our guests to enjoy. We use organic produce as much as possible, including our own free-range eggs and fresh fruit from the orchard. Guests are welcome to wander the paths of our 2.4 hectare garden during their stay.</span></p><p style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; font-size: 13px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;">Whether in Nelson and Tasman on holiday, or for some special time together, the two of you will enjoy your nights of escape from the world at The Boot.</span></p><p style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; font-size: 13px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;">There are two chairs at the table, two champagne flutes, two coffee cups. There is space for two on the couch, space for two on the bed, space for two in the shower...</span></p><p style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; font-size: 13px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;">The Boot, with its unique shape and tranquil, secluded surroundings, offers the utmost of romantic, hideaway accommodation for couples. Be it a special occasion or simply time alone The Boot is the perfect lovers retreat.</span></p><p style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; font-size: 13px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;">Downstairs there is a comfy couch in front of the open fire, a kitchenette with mini-bar and tea and coffee making facilities, and a tiled bathroom equipped with toiletries, soft towels, hairdryer and a shower built for two. Up the spiral staircase is the bedroom with regal queen-sized bed, dark curtains for late morning rises, and a Juliet balcony with views into the courtyard and across the pond. The courtyard itself is a sheltered outdoor space surrounded by a fragrant garden, ideal for soaking up the Tasman sunshine on sun loungers or enjoying long evenings of alfresco dining beside the outside fireplace.</span></p><p style="padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; outline-width: 0px; outline-style: initial; outline-color: initial; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; font-size: 13px; font-weight: inherit; font-style: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;">Fresh flowers, fine Nelson Art, candles, complementary chocolates, a stereo and no TV complete the romantic scene. Breakfast of your choosing is delivered to your door any time before midday.</span></p></span></div>HollyGhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15508759472537622246noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1132503431665976114.post-28907584282639556072010-05-11T20:29:00.002-04:002010-05-11T20:39:20.852-04:00The wee small hours<div style="text-align: center;">I find myself up, nights, crossing my feet in creases of sheets and squinting at the ribbons of light cast diagonally from the window.</div><div style="text-align: center;">My thoughts twirl.</div><div style="text-align: center;">Wee small hours, solitary, can play tricks with our heads...</div><div style="text-align: center;">oh to roam the streets of Manhattan, find dog-eared creased-leather-covered books of poetry left like arrows pointing to someone else's story.</div><div style="text-align: center;">To visit Lady Chrysler's moon-dust glow again.</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 267px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh66habcybQ6EbFtKEc2lhBpAu8iAi8xYMjalIzLXQoAFuphziOLwQ_vgfmgbKcZURP-rNiREcwEtuMG_s7kCy7qAOBOJ3Y-gcMhH_5Ggzz8KYJf9jBSYGD7tQ6lj4U45DcrCBmRIUN3Co/s400/11allnighters-custom1.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5470176513595581522" /></div><div style="text-align: left;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style=" ;font-size:13px;"><span class="timestamp published" title="2010-05-11T16:13:51+00:00" style="margin-top: 15px; font-weight: bold; display: block; margin-bottom: 10px; text-transform: uppercase; font-family:arial, helvetica, sans-serif;font-size:0.829em;">MAY 11, 2010, <span>4:13 PM</span></span><h3 class="entry-title" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 12px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; font-size: 16px; ">Insomniac City</h3><address class="byline author vcard" style="font-weight: bold; font-size: 0.829em; margin-bottom: 12px; display: block; font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; ">By <a href="http://opinionator.blogs.nytimes.com/author/bill-hayes/" class="url fn" title="See all posts by BILL HAYES" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 102); text-decoration: none; text-transform: uppercase; ">BILL HAYES</a></address><div class="entry-content"><p style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: medium; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; line-height: 1.375em; "></p><div class="w151 left module" style="float: left; clear: left; margin-right: 12px; margin-left: 0px; margin-top: 5px; width: 151px; padding-top: 0.5em; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0.5em; padding-left: 0px; border-top-width: 1px; border-top-color: rgb(102, 102, 102); border-top-style: solid; "><div class="entry categoryDescriptionModule"><p class="summary" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 12px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; line-height: 1.375em; "><a href="http://opinionator.blogs.nytimes.com/category/all-nighters/" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 102); text-decoration: none; ">All-Nighters </a>is an exploration of insomnia, sleep and the nocturnal life.</p></div><div class="entry entryTagsModule"><h4 style="color: black; margin-top: 1em; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 0px; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 1.2em; ">Tags:</h4><p class="meta tags" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 12px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; line-height: 1.375em; "><a href="http://opinionator.blogs.nytimes.com/tag/insomnia/" rel="tag" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 102); text-decoration: none; ">insomnia</a>, <a href="http://opinionator.blogs.nytimes.com/tag/manhattan/" rel="tag" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 102); text-decoration: none; ">Manhattan</a>,<a href="http://opinionator.blogs.nytimes.com/tag/reading/" rel="tag" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 102); text-decoration: none; ">reading</a></p><p style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 12px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; line-height: 1.375em; "></p></div><p style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: medium; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; line-height: 1.375em; "></p></div><p style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: medium; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; line-height: 1.375em; "></p><div class="w427">Todd Heisler/The New York Times</div><p style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: medium; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; line-height: 1.375em; ">I moved to New York a year ago and felt at once at home. In the haggard buildings and bloodshot skies, in trains that never stopped running, like my racing mind at night, I recognized my insomniac self. If New York were a patient, it would be diagnosed with <em>agrypnia excitata</em>, a rare genetic condition characterized by insomnia, nervous energy, constant twitching, and dream enactment. An apt description of a city that never sleeps, a place where one comes to reinvent himself.</p><p style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: medium; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; line-height: 1.375em; ">I brought very little with me, in part because I wished to leave behind <a href="http://opinionator.blogs.nytimes.com/2010/04/27/sleep-loss/" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 102); text-decoration: none; ">reminders of the life I’d had</a>, but also for more practical reasons. My new home was a virtual treehouse, a tiny top-floor walk-up apartment at eye-level with the Ailanthus boughs. There was not room for more than a desk, a chair, a mattress. Nor, a need: You see, the place came furnished with spectacular views of Manhattan.<br /><br />What I didn’t know when I rented the place was that the French restaurant located straight below my apartment had outdoor seating till 2 a.m. Lying awake in bed, I could literally hear glasses clinking, toasts being made, six stories down. This was irritating at first. But it wasn’t long before I discovered a phenomenon heretofore unknown to me: Laughter rises. Hearing happy laughing people is no cure for insomnia but has an ameliorative effect on broken-heartedness.</p><div class="w190 right module" style="float: right; clear: right; margin-left: 12px; margin-right: 0px; width: 190px; margin-top: 5px; padding-top: 0.5em; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0.5em; padding-left: 0px; border-top-width: 1px; border-top-color: rgb(102, 102, 102); border-top-style: solid; "><div class="entry">If you are lonely or bone-tired or blue, you need only come down from your perch and step outside. New York — which is to say, New Yorkers — will take care of you.<p style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 12px; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; line-height: 1.375em; "></p></div></div><p style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: medium; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; line-height: 1.375em; ">Sometimes I’d sit in the kitchen in the dark and gaze out at the Empire State and Chrysler buildings. Such a beautiful pair, so impeccably dressed, he in his boxy suit, every night a different hue, and she, an arm’s length away, in her filigreed skirt the color of the moon. I regarded them as an old married couple, calmly, unblinkingly, keeping watch over one of their newest sons. And I returned the favor. I would be there the moment the Empire State turned off its lights for the night, as if getting a little shut-eye before sunrise.</p><p style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: medium; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; line-height: 1.375em; ">Here’s another wonder I discovered about life here: In the summertime, late into the night, some leave behind their sweat-dampened sheets to read in the coolness of a park under streetlights. Not Kindles, mind you, nor i-Phones. But books. Newspapers. Novels. Poetry. Completely absorbed, as if in their own worlds. As indeed, they are. I had never seen anything like this until I took a shortcut through Abingdon Square Park one night while walking off my own mild agrypnia.</p><p style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: medium; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; line-height: 1.375em; ">First I saw an old man reading a newspaper from which someone (his wife?) had snipped numerous articles; it looked like a badly botched doily. I tiptoed past, as if wearing slippers, and he, as if at home in his La-Z-Boy, did not glance up.</p><p style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: medium; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; line-height: 1.375em; ">Next I spotted a young man reading a paperback with a distinctive brick-red cover. I was pretty certain I knew what classic he had in hand but had to make sure. I fake-dropped my keys nearby and crouched down for a better look. Just then, the young man shifted in his seat, denying me absolutely proof. That’s O.K. I was left to imagine him imagining himself as Holden Caulfield.</p><div class="w190 right module" style="float: right; clear: right; margin-left: 12px; margin-right: 0px; width: 190px; margin-top: 5px; padding-top: 0.5em; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0.5em; padding-left: 0px; border-top-width: 1px; border-top-color: rgb(102, 102, 102); border-top-style: solid; "><div class="entry">More in This Series<ul class="refer" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 1em; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 1em; list-style-type: none; list-style-position: initial; list-style-image: initial; "><li style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0.3em; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; list-style-type: disc; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 11px; "><a href="http://opinionator.blogs.nytimes.com/2010/05/05/raiders-of-the-night-kitchen/" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 102); text-decoration: none; ">“Raiders of the Night Kitchen”</a> by Leanne Shapton</li><li style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0.3em; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; list-style-type: disc; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 11px; "><a href="http://opinionator.blogs.nytimes.com/2010/05/02/miles-to-go/" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 102); text-decoration: none; ">“Miles To Go”</a> by Tera Moody</li><li style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0.3em; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; list-style-type: disc; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 11px; "><a href="http://opinionator.blogs.nytimes.com/2010/04/27/sleep-loss/" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 102); text-decoration: none; ">“Sleep: Loss”</a> by Bill Hayes</li><li style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0.3em; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; list-style-type: disc; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: 11px; ">Read Posts From <a href="http://opinionator.blogs.nytimes.com/category/all-nighters/" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 102); text-decoration: none; ">the Entire Series »</a></li></ul></div></div><p style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: medium; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; line-height: 1.375em; ">At the far end of the park, I found a middle-aged woman bathed in light Vermeer would have loved, reading what looked like a textbook. Was she a teacher preparing for tomorrow’s class, a student cramming last-minute, or neither of these? Perhaps she was simply teaching herself.</p><p style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: medium; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; line-height: 1.375em; ">Of course, not everyone awake at this hour is an insomniac. The city is alive with doormen, delivery boys on bikes, street sweepers, homeless people, hustlers, prep cooks popping up out of trap doors in the sidewalk. I make a point of waving or nodding hello when I can. I have come to believe that kindness is repaid in unexpected ways and that if you are lonely or bone-tired or blue, you need only come down from your perch and step outside. New York — which is to say, New Yorkers — will take care of you.</p><p style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: medium; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; line-height: 1.375em; ">One night not long ago I was walking down Hudson Street when I spotted a dollar bill on the sidewalk. Even at my age, 49, such a find seems magical. Free money! I leaned down to pick it up just as a woman opposite me was doing the same thing: “A dollar,” I heard her murmur, and our heads practically bumped. We both laughed. I happened to reach it first, but it seemed ungentlemanly to take it. “Here, it’s yours,” I said, offering it to the woman.</p><p style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: medium; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; line-height: 1.375em; ">“No! No, it’s yours, you got it first.”</p><p style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: medium; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; line-height: 1.375em; ">“No, I insist, you take it,” I said, but by this point, she was walking away, arm in arm with a handsome man; she already had her prize. Suddenly, inspiration struck: “I’m going to leave it for someone else!” I called back to her.</p><p style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: medium; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; line-height: 1.375em; ">“Perfect!” she said, over her shoulder. “Good night!”</p><p style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: medium; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; line-height: 1.375em; ">I dropped the dollar back onto the sidewalk. It was liberating: To throw money away or, more accurately, throw it to the fates, as I had with my life by moving to New York City.</p><p style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: medium; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; line-height: 1.375em; ">I walked a few steps and, I kid you not, hid behind a tree to watch what would take place. One couple passed by without noticing the dollar, then another. Finally, a man about my age came walking in my direction. Hunched shoulders, troubled look, pulling on a cigarette. <i>Definitely an insomniac,</i>I thought. <i>I want you to have it. It’s yours. You deserve it.</i></p><p style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-size: medium; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0.7em; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; line-height: 1.375em; ">From my secluded vantage point, I watched as the fellow spotted the dollar. He stopped, looked around to see if anyone was in the vicinity. Perhaps someone in front of him had dropped it? No, the sidewalk was empty. He picked up the dollar and pocketed it with a small smile then went on his way. As did I, back to my treehouse.</p></div></span></div>HollyGhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15508759472537622246noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1132503431665976114.post-85536974460522172332010-05-07T19:36:00.005-04:002010-05-07T19:50:24.289-04:00Only hymns upon your lips<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjM5fJhfLdavpxMDdhKFhArKyKuGF21sJaDCCl3IygPfb8kaUkweFRwLUUUcWKt6oLITUHmPhItnqEdD44nEnCuQmDjtrzjr9wKEUpPwb7k5QyLkoOsJvQ5X9I2KJEL23cYzk1S48kf-uA/s1600/leamichelejonathangroff2.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 300px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjM5fJhfLdavpxMDdhKFhArKyKuGF21sJaDCCl3IygPfb8kaUkweFRwLUUUcWKt6oLITUHmPhItnqEdD44nEnCuQmDjtrzjr9wKEUpPwb7k5QyLkoOsJvQ5X9I2KJEL23cYzk1S48kf-uA/s400/leamichelejonathangroff2.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5468676698659046194" /></a><div><div style="text-align: center;">"Just too unreal, all this..."</div><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 306px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhitvNV2sd4kit4djSkfAzTMuedb5o-rv53ZukouirzTDL8MtTsE7ttBm5wHLzmH0ndduzX67lbdNoktvL2h_qcGiXWQ38WckrQUApCXNB2OU4eZbkieFpIbmu6OY3Z7O_Wn-liVKPQmEk/s400/SpringA450.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5468676543661357362" /><div style="text-align: center;">"Still you know they will fill your heart and mind</div><div style="text-align: center;">When they say, there's a way through this..."</div><div style="text-align: center;"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiYWM15dNwsuhrEXdQkYzhQNymEWiAO4epAii6A0cw84WW3jLCFpdR5h41NanxLDoOVkR8Kb710BzNBIM8OpCW-szu1trOYjtpAz6a0NPQ1_K2LSVjSHYo55_lOSd-igpxL6HN0xfTgfk4/s400/spring-awakenings-400a051607.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5468676459782151026" /></div><div style="text-align: center;">"Another dream, another love you'll hold..."</div><div style="text-align: center;"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 240px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjTTDFYiAch_EkfAVxGEN0yY7YhHjf0fZ0aDZELePryGomSP0fUcb8mw68Q7pDKOJDSuti5AiCQO1GmkhVJngh9lNrl_396rVqmuHwnP_-rutvTbRUOYg852F79zk6z2-WYV_xVWDmlmiw/s400/leamichelejonathangroff.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5468676301244980178" /></div><div style="text-align: center;">"Had a sweetheart on his knees, so faithful and adoring</div><div style="text-align: center;">And he touched me, and I let him love me</div><div style="text-align: center;">So let that be my story..."</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;">I don't do sadness.</div></div>HollyGhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15508759472537622246noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1132503431665976114.post-52681739069742850482010-05-03T16:43:00.003-04:002010-05-03T16:53:23.529-04:00my heart is riding on your wings<div style="text-align: center;">You would have been 95 today.</div><div style="text-align: center;">I love you, Grandma.</div><div style="text-align: center;"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 224px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiDI184f8qnhgCRljUYbIMq4kpQx1Dblx1eXI7PeHD5YYYvlo7-AunWBzHr1lU9Y5cDBY3qegEguL0__GPLvoxcdpJ7djVuEJlnhfuUe9RQFlzFTlLRXHYybpD225oqsHJpryBjhaorA48/s400/DSC00413.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5467148283616385106" /></div><div style="text-align: center;">P.S. I have a million dollar hat, too.</div><div style="text-align: center;">P.P.S. Your storm lamp turns my bedside reading aglow. Your needlepoint adorns my wall. Your handkerchiefs cover my countertop. You are missed, but still are very very present.</div>HollyGhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15508759472537622246noreply@blogger.com0